For amazing sex, you must be vocal!

I don't know what's going on these days, but lately when the girls and I get together it's all sex talk. Ok, maybe it's because I'm the least prude-ish of the bunch... so that's why they come to me or maybe it's cause they know I'm a perv... either which way, it seems to have become a ritual.

The subject was how men fail women in bed. Now before you freak out, I stood up for you boys. I told them that a woman's body is kinda cryptic... lots hidden in the dark.

I think the main reason why women tend to think that some men can't do things "right" is due to lack of guidance. Let's face it, what one woman likes, another will not. Yet a lot of women won't speak up. One of my friends said "well, I moan louder when I like it!" What the heck?!?! How does that help... what if he's distracted?! Girlfriend... it's about time you took hold of the reins and speak up. There is no shame in saying what you like and don't like. Sure your man might be offended at first, but he'll get over it.

As I have told many of my guy friends in the past... she's just letting you know what HER body responds to. It's not an insult, it's not saying "wtf... ur useless!" But honestly speaking, who would know her body better than her?! So if she guides ur hand... or what have you... take it for what it's worth... if she speaks up... don't freak out!

The more the two of you (it goes both ways) are open about what you like and how you like it done... the better your sex life will be!